Back in 2014 I had traveled to Scotland on my first backpacking trip and after it was over I was determined to come back and explore more of this beautiful land and people. Now, many years later I have partially spent my summer months here, made friends and feel lucky to photograph in such a unique place on Earth. Scottish people have always been welcoming and laidback. The land is full of history, variable terrain and weather which amplifies the experience.
Happy to see you are curious about this place as well and are looking into marrying here. I have put together this elopement guide to Scotland in order to provide a structure and a roadmap for your intimate wedding or elopement. It's illustrated with my images from previous trips. I am elopement wedding photographer.
ELOPEMENT GUIDE - for inspiration and to help navigate the planning process
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Location
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Activities
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Timeline
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Something Scottish for your experience
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Celebrant
You should pick a location that has meaning or that will create lasting memories. Choosing to go on a grand adventure is a great way to make your elopement memorable for a lifetime.
Where can I elope?
Almost anywhere. You can old your own elopement ceremony practically anywhere in the world. Some states and countries also let you perform a self-uniting wedding ceremony without the need for a third party officiant.
You can either bring a few friends, ask your photographer, or find a random person on the trail.
Arguably it is the main piece of the puzzle. Select a place that is aligned with what you enjoy. It is the backdrop that will set the tone for your celebration.
Here are a few key points to ponder about that will narrow down the locations. My personal favorites are locations with changing scenery - you can be on a mountaintop and just right around the corner there might be a complety different view overlooking the sea. If nature is your sanctuary and feels like a shelter think of having the ceremony on a beach, amidst a forest or on a top of the hill. You can pick any place you want in the great outdoors. Places to choose from are abundant like the Highlands (Glencoe valley, the road in Glen Etive, castles & lochs), Isle of Skye in Scotland. Rent a cozy AirBnb nearby to spend the night before and after. You will have plenty of time to create amazing images along your hike with unposed, real moments. If you are more of a city couple, there are plenty of romantic neighbourhoods to choose for the elopement and fun things to experience on your day. The elopement can be celebrated with a cake and bubbles at a chic restaurant or a dinner made by a private chef. Think about the experience and then about the logistics. The elopement day timeline can be polished up later. I can help with suggestions or know the locations to go based on what you like.
Meaning
It could be a place where you've always wanted to go or a place that is meaningful to you and can be as a place to travel back to celebrate your anniversary. Sentimental value Think of the anniversaries, dates, firsts, and moments of growth you’ve shared: where did those moments happen?
Scenery
What type of scenery makes your hear stop and brings you joy? the place should make you both feel more connected and in the now. Think of a location that would fulfill the expeerience that that you're dreaming of. Scotland has diverse nature even if most of the world knows it as a place for the rolling hills You can find ancient forests , castles and wee bridges, high mountain ranges and cities, towns.
Seasons and weather
Certain sceneries are at their most beautiful that should be considered when choosing the location. Glencoe and mountain ranges are beautiful year round with lush greens on summer to burned orange tone sin autumn and snow in the winter. In the lower parts of Scotland you will find certain seasonal flowers blooming throughout the spring and summer such as heather and gorse (the yellow shrubs). High elevation locations are more easily accessible throughout the warmer months of the year. Season also affects bookings for accommodation. Midgies, how is your relationship with cold
Seclusion
In general, the further out you are willing to travel the more privacy you will have. For the best light as well as less business it is best to have your ceremony in the monrning hours and or in the evening. The most picturesque locations attract the most visitors - outdoor enthusiasts and tourists but there is always a possibility to walk a bit further out to keep the amazing views and and have the place for yourselves. The best months with warmer tamperaturesfor being out in the nature with less crowd around is April-May and September- early October. Spring months tend to be more dry months. Weekday vs weekend
Experiences
Are there other activities you would like to do on your day after the ceremony? It can be anything from taking it slow and relaxing next to a bonfire to taking a kayak ride, sailboat. Some locations will be able to offer more variety of experiences. If you already have an activity in mind then it could help you to set the mind of the location.
Plan for Plan B
Once you have selected your ideal location think of any alternatives that you could fall back to if there are sudden road closures, extreme weather etc.
The Isle of Skye has to be one of the most spectacular parts of Scotland. However many times we return, Skye never fails to take our breath away. Eloping on Skye will always be spectacular, in all weathers and all seasons!
Skye is about 5.5 hours drive from both Glasgow and Edinburgh. So if you’re planning to travel to Skye for your elopement, you might want to turn it into a bit of a road trip and spend several days there. It’s a large island, with lots to explore and very narrow, winding roads, so it takes time to get around. Don’t rush it!
Navigate the cobbled streets and get hitched in the City Chambers and go to a pub or some resaturant afterwrds. For the shoot can go o Calton Hill or explore locations around the Arthurs Seat. Edinburgh offers a bunch of unique stays. You may want to look into the Witchery, Gothic
3 hour drive from Edinburgh. The most common area where to park your car and start exploring the area is the Three Sisters car park. From there you can go downhill on the footpaths which lead closer up to the loch. The path has many side roads so can Easily accessable and gives the most famous view if Scotlands rolling hills. You might want to take a look at my Glencoe guide for the exact spots.
Kilchurn castle is located north from Glasgow, the best view opens up to it from the opposite side of the loch. The grassy, boggy ground with a few trees makes it a beautiful setting where you can say your vows. You need to walk just a few hundred meters from your car to have the best view. Easily accessible for anyone. In summer it can be a nice place for a picnic as the shore is a bit elevated. Some locals also love doing kayaking and swimming there. Worth mentioning that photographing up close the castle is not legal without a commercial permit as it is owned by Scottish National Trust. Best view is anywyas from a far. Make sure you take rubber boots for crossing the boggy field of grass.
While most of the crowd goes directly to climb Ben Nevis, take a road through the valley and get surprised by a "hidden" gem - steal falls. The road to it is picturesque enough to take occasional breaks and take a look around. In the mornings it is possible to see a beautiful cloud inversion.
Orkney Islands are so remote, you will need to fly there or take a ferry to reach. I recommed Ring of Brodgar. Puffin watching, boating around the islands.
Beautiful throughout the year. Pictured middle of May when the shrubs bloom in bright yellow. You can have the ceremony done on the hill, overlooking the valley and the opposing mountain.
Old mountain ranges, and basically no tourists. Enjoy the vast wilderness to yourself.
It takes 3h to fdrive till the end of it on asingle aisle road. Watch out for midgies.
Scotland is a place with landscapes that like to "show off" no matter the time of the year. Wee towns and cities holding history that you can feel.
Since many of you reading this might not actually be born and raised in Scotland it would be worth incorporating some Scottish traditions. A great way to support the local small businesses as well. Perhaps wearing a kilt if you dont have scottish blood would ......here are some ideas worth for the visual setting and for ...
Tartan blankets
Dried flower bouquets
Thristle or heather in your flowers
Hand fastning ceremony
Scottish traditional foods for your dinner
Bagpiper for your ceremony
Dance Ceildih
Scotch
Gift a brooch or a piece of jewellery - A luckenbooth is a brooch
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